Letting Go…

Letting go is like getting a tooth pulled by a dentist. Pull it out, you’re relieved. But how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day. Just because it wasn’t hurting it means you don’t notice it. It leaves a gap and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It’s going to take a while, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? NO, because it was causing so much pain.

Being Strong

It's fun being a strong person... you feel invincible, like you can face anything that comes your way... But you know what sucks being one? It's when people know that you're strong and they think it's okay to hurt you...

Expect Absence

In love you have to expect absence at some point, but that doesn't mean it's the end; All you have to do is wait for a time. Give the person space because true love is proven when a person has seen the best people in the world but still turns back to where you are, reaches your hand and chooses you above the world's best! ;)

Friendship

Friendship is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single care... It is a lifetime adventure in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

My own happiness is killing me

Hard to accept that the person I love the most can't be with me.

I don't want to give up... but i have to. I want to fight... but the pain weakens me.

How can I be truly happy... when my own happiness kills me? :(

Butterfly

Once there was a butterfly in my palm, but I let it flew. Not because I don't love it, but because I wanted it to enjoy with flowers and the bees. Keeping it in my palm won't make it the best butterfly it can be, so from a distance I'm happier watching it fly and play in the garden while the sun is still shining, because when the rain comes, I'll know... If it truly loves me, it will fly back to me...

2 Loves...

In life, you have two loves...

One, who changes the way you see yourself and the world...

and the other who puts you back together after you have lost the first.

When you love, do not regret

When you love... Never regret what you did...
It's not a matter of finding the the right person but it's matter of...
being the right person for the one you choose to love.

Beauty that is too well hidden

If a person isn't interested in you, then leave. It's as simple as that. Don't beg, don't look back and don't cry. If this person can't appreciate who you are, then you don't need him/her in you life. Choose to be with someone who sees the beauty that is sometimes too well hidden.

Sad Irony

One sad irony of self is when we always knew what's right for the others, while there are certain wrong things we pursue on our own...

If you were...

If you were all alone in the universe with no one to talk to, no one with which to share the beauty of the stars, to laugh with, to touch, what would be your purpose in life? It is other life, it is love, which gives your life meaning. This is harmony. We must discover the joy of each other, the joy of challenge, the joy of growth.

Responsibilities...

Responsibility does not only lie with the leaders of our countries or with those who have been appointed or elected to do a particular job. It lies with each of us individually. Peace, for example, starts within each one of us. When we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us.

Indifference

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference.
The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference.
And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.

Life...

You gotta dance like nobody's watching, dream like you will live forever, live like you're going to die tomorrow and love like it's never going to hurt.

Finding true love

Find someone who isn't afraid to admit that they miss you.
Someone who knows that you're not perfect, but treats you as if you are.
Someone whose biggest fear is losing you.
One who gives their heart completely.
Someone who says I Love You and means it.
Last but not the least, find someone who wouldn't mind waking up in the morning, seeing your wrinkles, and your gray hair but still falls in love with you all over again.

Let them be themselves...

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

Good things never seems to last

Loving is a lot like watching a 20 minutes fireworks display. Exciting, emotional, romantic, sweet, memorable. But it also ends as dramatic as it began. It fades slowly into thin air and as much as you wanted to keep watching there's nothing to make it stay. In the end, all there's left is a starless night and the fact that in this life, good things never seems to last.

Try ME!

Smooth roads never make good drivers.
Smooth seas never make good sailors.
Clear skies never make good pilots.
A problem free life never makes a strong and good person.
Have a tough, but winning day ahead. Be strong enough to accept the challenges of life. Don't ask life "Why me?", instead say "Try ME?".

Listen to your heart

Take time to listen to your heart, sometimes you need not to ask yourself who you really love most, but ask yourself who really makes you happy and who makes you feel loved!

Self Respect

Sometimes, you just have to try not to care no matter how much you do because sometimes you can mean nothing to someone who means everything to you. It's not pride... It's called Self Respect.

Alone...

Most of us need time alone: To clear our heads, to process thoughts, to formulate strategies, to be with nature, to get things in perspective. Sometimes we just need to be alone so that we can miss someone... and fall in love with them all over again.

New Start

Never use failure as an excuse for not trying again... we may not be able to undo the damage or reverse the consequences, but we can always make a NEW START

Love and get hurt

We have to realize that love's not enough to make a relationship work... We need trust, respect, time, effort and total commitment... If a person doesn't show respect, doesn't earn your trust and can't keep a promise, then no matter how many times they say "I love you", those words will be empty. Take time to listen to what they don't say... Take time to look at what they don't show... Because there are secrets hidden beneath their words. Don't let passion but wisdom decide for you. Love wisely... because its never easy--- To love and get hurt.

Take some time

Take some time to smile when you're sad... To rest when you're tired... To love if you're feeling empty... And let go if you need to... Time endures, time heals... In this life, just take some time for yourself... Then you'll see... Everything will fall into the right place... The way you wanted life to be...

Perfect Relationship

It's not about having the perfect relationship, but its finding someone who matches you and you'll go through without giving up.

Who your friends are

When you're up, your friends know who you are... When you're down, you'll know who your friends are... it's a proven fact.

Don't Expect

You know what's the one wrong thing we all do when we fall in love?

We EXPECT!

And it just ruins everything... less expectation... less pain... Just LOVE!

Love yourself a little more...

I learned to love someone with all my life... But there came a point when I got tired, not of loving but of sacrificing all that I have... Then a thought came to my mind... "I have given everything but have received nothing but pain and tears in return"... Is this enough to prove; If I really love that person? Or is it telling me to stop sacrificing and learn to love myself a little more?